Tips for Ensuring Your Parent's Affairs Are in Order

Helping a difficult parent organize their affairs can be tough. It ensures their wishes are respected and relieves you from making tough decisions about their health and senior care needs.

If you're seeking assistance to organize your parents' affairs, WebWills is ready to support you every step of the way.

Benefits of planning ahead

• Knowing where essential documents are when support is needed. 

• Emergencies become less overwhelming.

• Avoid last-minute decisions for your parents.

• Understand and respect your parents’ wishes.

• Promote harmony with shared understanding, reducing conflicts.

Getting started with affairs

Preparing your affairs isn't just about making a will; it involves:

• Legal matters such as estate planning and setting up powers of attorney

• Financial planning, including retirement savings and wealth management

• Healthcare preferences and long-term care arrangements

If you or your parents need guidance, consider these steps to begin.

1. Start the Conversation Early

Initiating discussions about estate planning and future arrangements early can make the process smoother. Approach the topic gently and with empathy, explaining the importance of having everything for their peace of mind and the family's well-being.

2. Educate Yourself

Before discussing specifics, educate yourself about the necessary legal documents and steps involved in estate planning. Understanding the process will help you answer their questions and provide accurate information, making them more comfortable with the idea.

Ensure your parents have all essential legal documents securely in place. Gather and store these documents safely:

• Their will

• Advance healthcare directives

• Enduring powers of attorney for finances and healthcare

• A family plan outlining caregiving roles

• Birth, marriage, and death certificates; divorce decrees; citizenship papers; Social Security cards

• Property deeds or cemetery plots

• Pre-paid funeral plans

• Insurance policies and pension benefits

• Lists of medications

This preparation ensures their affairs are well-managed and accessible when needed.

3. Involve a Professional

Sometimes, a neutral third party like a lawyer or financial advisor can make discussions easier. They can provide professional advice and ensure that all legal requirements are met, which can alleviate some of your parent's concerns.

4. Be Patient and Listen

Patience is crucial when dealing with a difficult parent. Listen to their worries and objections without interrupting. Acknowledging their feelings can help build trust and make them more receptive to your suggestions.

5. Simplify the Process

Break down the tasks into manageable steps. Create a checklist of what needs to be done and tackle one thing at a time. This approach can make the process less overwhelming for your parent and for you.

6. Focus on Their Wishes

Ensure that the planning reflects your parent's wishes. Ask them about their preferences for healthcare, financial decisions, and distribution of assets. Making them feel in control can reduce resistance.

7. Document Everything

Keep thorough records of all discussions, decisions, and documents. This can prevent misunderstandings and ensure that all parties are on the same page. Having everything documented can also make it easier to manage their affairs later.

8. Use our Digital Vault

Utilize technology to keep track of important documents and deadlines. There are many apps and software designed for estate planning that can help you organize and store information securely, and make it available to those who need that information when they need it.

9. Offer Emotional Support

Recognize that this process can be emotionally taxing for your parent. Offer your support and reassure them that you are there to help, not to take control. Emotional support can go a long way in easing their anxiety.

10. Review Regularly

Estate planning is not a one-time task. Regularly review and update documents to reflect any changes in your parent's situation or wishes. Keeping everything current ensures that their affairs are always in order.

Helping a difficult parent get their affairs in order is a delicate task, but it can be done with patience, understanding, and the right approach. These tips can guide you through the process, ensuring that your parent's wishes are respected, and their future is secured.

DISCLAIMER

This is a commentary published by WebWills for general information purposes only. This is not meant to be taken as particular advice. You should seek your own legal and other advice for any question, situation, or proposal, or contact the writer at http://webwills.com.au before making any final decision. The content also is subject to change. A   person listed may not be admitted as a lawyer in all States and Territories.

© WebWills, Australia 2024.

Victoria's Will Contesting: 10 Essential Facts

Contesting a will can be daunting, especially when you're unsure of where to begin. Here are the essential points you need to understand before taking any action: 

1. Don't Miss the Deadline: You have six months from the date of the probate grant or administrator appointment to contest a will. However, exceptions can be made if the estate hasn't been distributed. If the estate has been wound up, you will have missed your chance.

2. Eligibility Matters: If you're a spouse, partner, child, or stepchild of the deceased, you're likely eligible to contest the will. If unsure, seek legal advice tailored to your circumstances. The crux of a claim is whether the deceased had a moral duty to provide for you.

3. Timeframe for Resolution: Most claims are resolved within six to nine months through negotiation or mediation. If a hearing is necessary, it might take twelve to eighteen months, maybe longer. Be prepared to negotiate, legal costs can quickly get out of hand.

4. Timing is Crucial: You can contest a will only after it's probated or when an administrator for the estate is appointed by the court. If you know that an executor has not applied for probate, perhaps to defeat a challenge by simply delaying, you can apply to court for assistance to compel the executor to apply for probate or offer up the Will so that the next person in line can apply for probate.

5. Know Your Claimable Assets: You can claim against assets owned or in which the deceased had an interest. Trusts and superannuation usually fall outside this scope. You will have to pursue claims against any other entity separately. Also remember that if the deceased owned property with another as a Joint Tenant, that other person automatically becomes the sole owner of the property without the need to apply for probate or reference to the deceased Will.

6. Court Considerations: The court assesses the moral duty of the deceased to provide for you and whether the distribution of the estate adequately meets your needs. You will need to disclose your financial position to justify your claim.

7. Legal Process Overview: Contesting a will involves legal proceedings against the estate. This includes exchanging documents, mediation, and potential court hearings. Be aware before you get started that it will be a lengthy and stressful process, coupled with your existing grief of the loss of a loved one.

8. Assessing Your Claim's Value: Determining the worth of your claim involves complex considerations and varies between judges. Expert legal assistance is key. You should seek legal advice, and remember that there are no guarantees that you will get what you want or indeed anything at all.

9. Understanding Costs: Contesting a will typically incur costs ranging from $30,000 to $50,000 to potentially a whole lot more, often covered by the estate. The bigger the estate the more these costs seemed to blow out. A successful claim usually results in costs being paid from the estate.

10. Exploring Fee Arrangements: Financing options are sometimes available from external loan providers, who will likely also require some commission or uplift to finance the proceedings. These options can be a lot more expensive than they first appear.

If you're considering contesting a will in Victoria, our team at HazeLegal is here to assist you. We'll assess your case, provide clear guidance, and work to achieve your best possible outcome. Don't hesitate to reach out to us for expert advice tailored to your situation.

DISCLAIMER

This is a commentary published by WebWills for general information purposes only. This is not meant to be taken as particular advice. You should seek your own legal and other advice for any question, or any specific situation or proposal, or get in touch with the writer at http://webwills.com.au before making any final decision. The content also is subject to change. A person listed may not be admitted as a lawyer in all States and Territories.

© WebWills, Australia 2024.

What will your Tombstone say?

Our epitaph is the world’s lasting view of us, a summary of our lives, and what we stood for.

What will your tombstone say about you? Entrepreneur, hard worker, professional, scroller of social media, binger of Netflix?

Or it says, most beloved parent, child or spouse?

What do you want it to say? For that is how you must live your life.

We often get busy with the minutiae of life and forget about what is important.

It is your executor who will choose the inscription on your tombstone, so now you know who to impress. Haven’t appointed an executor? Then maybe writing your Will should be the next thing on your To-do list. Contemplating your passing does not have to be scary, it can be a wake-up call – before it’s too late – on what you want from this one short and crazy life!

Here are a few famous tombstones to inspire you.

Emily Dickinson (Author) (1830-1886)

“Called Back”

Referring to the last words that she ever wrote in a letter to her cousins, but also the title of a novella she loved by Hugh Conway.

And not a reference to a phone scam.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616)

  "Good friend for Jesus' sake forbear,

  To dig the dust enclosed here.

  Blessed be the man that spares these stones,

  And cursed be he that moves my bones."

I think someone was a little concerned about grave robbers. Though probably not unfounded.

Rosa Parks (1913 – 2005)

“Mother of the Civil Rights Movement”

I think we can all agree on that one.

A fitting tribute to her monumental impact on history.

Winston Churchill (1874-1965)

"I am ready to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter."

Churchill's wit and wisdom even in death.

Mel Blanc (1908-1989)

"That's All Folks!"

The famous sign-off of the man behind many beloved cartoon voices.

Martin Luther King Jr. (1929-1968)

"Free at last, Free at last, Thank God Almighty I'm Free at last."

Echoing his immortal words from the civil rights movement.

Merv Griffin (1925-2007)

"I will not be right back after this message."

A humorous nod to his career as a television host.

Frank Sinatra (1915-1998)

"The Best Is Yet To Come."

A hopeful message from the legendary singer.

J.R.R. Tolkien (1892-1973)

"Beren" and "Lúthien"

A touching reference to his epic love story from "The Silmarillion." He shares the grave with his wife Mary, who is referred to as Luthien and he as Beren, two great loves.

Johnny Cash (1932-2003)

"I walk the line."

Summarising his life and music career in just a few words.

Mae West (1893-1980)

"Come up and see me some time."

A cheeky nod to her famous catchphrase.

Billy Wilder (1906-2002)

“I'm a writer but then nobody's perfect.”

Only a writer could pen those words.

Edgar Allan Poe (1809-1849)

“Quoth the Raven, Nevermore.”

A fitting tribute to his most famous poem “The Raven” and its interpretation that nothing can be done to change the situation of he who lies there. Very clever indeed.

Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)

“The body of Benjamin Franklin, Printer, Like the cover of an old book, Its contents are torn out, And stripped of its lettering and gilding, Lies here, food for worms. But the work shall not be lost, For it will, as he believed, appear once more, In a new and more elegant edition, Revised and corrected by the Author.”

Reflecting his view on death and life beyond.

Bette Davis (1908-1989)

“She did it the hard way.”

Having succeeded in Hollywood when the pressures against women were even greater than they are now. She was the first woman to be awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award by the American Film Institute

George Washington Carver (1864-1943)

“He could have added fortune to fame, but caring for neither, he found happiness and honour in being helpful to the world.”

Words to live by, and a wonderful legacy to leave.

Planning your legacy is as important as living it. These epitaphs remind us to consider what we want our final message to the world to be. By planning your estate now, you can ensure that your legacy reflects your values and what you stood for. If you need help with estate planning, don't hesitate to reach out. Your legacy is worth securing.

DISCLAIMER

This is a commentary published by WebWills for general information purposes only. This is not meant to be taken as particular advice. You should seek your own legal and other advice for any question, or any specific situation or proposal, or get in touch with the writer at http://webwills.com.au before making any final decision. The content also is subject to change. A person listed may not be admitted as a lawyer in all States and Territories.

© Webwills, Australia 2024.

Why it’s important to have a Power of Attorney

Introducing the Power of Attorney: Unlocking Peace of Mind
Are you prepared for unexpected situations that may leave you unable to make important decisions about your finances, healthcare, or legal matters? At Web Wills, we understand the importance of anticipating life's uncertainties, which is why we bring you the indispensable solution – the Power of Attorney.

Why is a Power of Attorney is a Necessary but small Expense?

1. Protecting your wishes:
Life can be unpredictable, with accidents and illnesses lurking around the corner. In such instances, it is crucial to have a legal representative who can make decisions aligned with your wishes. A Power of Attorney grants the authority to a trusted person or persons of your choice, ensuring that your preferences regarding healthcare, property, and finance are followed, even when you cannot express them directly.

2. Avoiding costly legal battles:
Without a Power of Attorney in place, your family members or loved ones may find themselves facing complex legal proceedings and court interventions to make decisions on your behalf. This often leads to significant financial burdens, prolonged processes, and emotional stress. By having a Power of Attorney, you minimize the risk of disputes and eliminate the need for legal battles, saving considerable time, money, and unnecessary grief.

3. Maintaining financial stability:
Imagine being temporarily incapacitated and unable to manage your financial affairs, pay bills, or access your bank accounts. This situation could leave you vulnerable to financial hardships, missed opportunities, and potential scams. By designating a trusted agent through a Power of Attorney, your personal finances can continue to be prudently managed, ensuring your bills are paid, investments are monitored, and assets are protected.

4. Medical decisions in line with your wishes:
When it comes to healthcare decisions, you deserve to have your voice heard – even if you are unable to express it yourself. A Power of Attorney for healthcare grants your chosen agent the authority to make medical decisions on your behalf, ensuring that your treatment preferences, end-of-life care, and medical interventions are executed as you desire. This critical document helps prevent confusion and ensures that your loved ones are not burdened with making difficult choices without guidance.

Why Choose Web Wills?

At Web Wills, we are committed to simplifying the process of creating a Power of Attorney, ensuring efficiency, affordability, and reliability. Here's what sets us apart:
1. User-friendly and secure platform: Our intuitive online platform allows you to create all the documents that you need at a fraction of the cost and in a fraction of the time.

2.Solicitor drafted: Our documents are solicitor drafted, to your individual needs.

3. Cost effective: our prices are super competitive.

4.We get the job done without all the fuss so you get on with more important matters, like your family.